I don't remember how old I was when I started asking my mom about her wedding, and when she and dad were first married, but I remember I did. She told me it was a small wedding and the pictures were put away. She got out a couple at one point, but I still would LOVE to see all of her wedding pictures...no matter how small. I suppose it was a sad time as well as a happy time, and she may not want to dwell on that, but it would probably be good for her, and I'd love to know the whole story. And I'd love to see pictures of her and my dad before kids.
I think it would be so cool to see what your mom and dad's lives were like before you came along...to see that they weren't always just your MOM and DAD. I would have loved to see a scrapbook of my grandparents' lives...and their parents' lives. My grandma (my mom's mom) started a scrapbook before she passed away, but it never got finished. I started to work on it, but I had to keep asking my mom who people were and what some pictures were from. I still have it sitting in a box, unfinished, hoping my mom can help me with it someday.
Journaling in your Scrapbook
I love that scrapbooking tells a story...that's why journaling is so important! I want to see my mom's whole story...I wanna see the pictures to go along with the stories I've heard over the years...and I want the stories to be retold so I never forget them!!! Oh wow, I'm starting to get emotional :)
I didn't always journal. I thought it ruined my page to have something handwritten on it. But when I started forgetting the story behind some of my older scrapbook pages, I realized how important it is. Plus, with computers so readily available nowadays, you can type your journal spots. (I've since gotten over the fact that my handwriting ruins a page...now I design my journal spot into the layout, and I can hide it if I want to!) But not only is journaling important for YOU, but someday you will not be around and your kids will know the stories behind their baby pictures, and your grandkids and great-grandkids will know what happened in all of your pictures! And they will be able to read funny little stories to go along with them. Regular photo albums are just pictures, but scrapbooking adds your personality into it.
Put YOU Into Your Artwork
Don't forget to take pictures of yourself
I don't have kids yet, but when I do, I want them to see that I'm not just their MOM, I was once just like them! As a scrapbooker, it's easy for me to make sure I take plenty of pictures to document a vacation or event, but it's also easy for me to forget to make sure I'm IN some pictures! You want to be sure you are telling YOUR story as well as your family's story.
Scrapbooking your family vacation to Hawaii or your son's first steps will never go out of style. But you can also tell a lot about yourself in unconventional ways. Mix some layouts in your scrapbook that focus on one subject. Maybe you have a thing for purses or, like me, SHOES. Take pictures of your favorite purses and shoes and turn them into a scrapbook layout. Explain how each represents you or how you wore them to death. Or take a picture of each room in your house. Explain what each room's purpose is, which you spend the most time in, and why you decorated it the way you did. I wish I had done that just in the few places I've lived in over the years. I'm sentimental :)
I PROMISE if your kids (well, daughters) are anything like I was growing up (and still am), they will eat this stuff up. Especially if you begin scrapbooking before you have kids...one day they will see that you were just like them.
Another way to make sure YOU are in your artwork is purposeful scrapbooking. Make a layout of something difficult you went through, maybe a loss, or struggling with an illness. Or make a layout of something very exciting...like the adoption of a child. Focus on one single experience rather than trying to tackle your whole life. Purposeful scrapbooking isn't necessarily just pictures. Add a picture or two, but add lots of journaling. What were you thinking, feeling, experiencing? How did this experience make you grow, how did it make those around you feel, what was your weakest or highest point? It's all about honesty. Think reality TV—wonder why it's so popular? It's behind-the-scenes of real life. Put that into your scrapbook.
Become a part of the layout so your voice is heard. It doesn't have to be about sad things that happen...it can be about happy things...but our lives are not always honky-dorey. We all go through rough patches...let's document those as well. It will help your kids and grandkids to understand the circumstances that shaped who you are today.
Here's to YOUR scrapbook!